From birth, your child has a strong bond with you as their parent or caregiver. This bond is essential but often leads to separation anxiety, causing children to experience intense fear or distress when separated from their primary caregiver. This normal part of growing up can pose a problem when it’s time to send your little one to daycare. Fortunately, at Toddler Town Daycare in Chicago, we know how to make separation less stressful. Read on for our best tips, then contact us to enroll your child today.
Establish a Routine
Did you know you can establish a routine with your child as early as four months of age? Routines provide predictability and security, so start them as soon as possible. Once your toddler knows what will happen each day, separation won’t feel so scary because they can continue their routine in the meantime.
Slowly Ease Into Separation
If you have a trusted caregiver available to watch your little one, consider easing into separation slowly. Start by leaving your child with the caregiver for short periods, then gradually transition to longer periods of separation. Not only will this help your child cope without you, but they’ll learn to trust that you’re coming back.
Provide Reassurance and Validation
As an adult, it may seem silly that your child can’t be apart from you. However, try putting yourself in their shoes and acknowledge and validate their fears. Encourage them to express their feelings, and reassure them that you understand them and will be back for them.
Avoid Stressful Goodbyes
Long and tearful goodbyes only make periods of separation harder to face, so it’s best to avoid them. Instead, keep your goodbyes short, calm, and positive. When the situation is less stressful, your child will find it easier to say goodbye and spend time without you.
Separation anxiety is common between toddlers and their parents or caregivers, which can make starting daycare at Toddler Town Daycare challenging. But by following these tips, your child will enjoy a smooth transition. Contact us today for additional resources or to learn more about our Chicago and Evanston daycare centers.
